Free To Be Popular Sanguine

i discovered this personality test. here it is to print off and take.
when i first took the test i found that i was operating in opposite personality traits. freaked me out - how can you be opposites?
once i found out the correct one it made me feel free. i now have an identity. crazy how that made me feel...

now i have an 'excuse' for not being disciplined and forgetting to keep up with my blog... hehehe i also know why i feel dead without friends and people to interact with. where there is no fun i find myself falling apart. would appear my life needs constant fun and change... who would have thought.

anyway - here is what the popular sanguine is: animated, playful, sociable, convincing, refreshing, spirited, promoter, spontaneous, optimistic, funny, delightful, cheerful, inspiring, demonstrative, mixes easily, talker, lively, cute, popular, bouncy, brassy, undisciplined, repetitious, forgetful, interrupts, unpredictable, haphazard, permissive, angered easily, naive, wants credit, talkative, disorganized, inconsistent, messy, show-off, loud, scatterbrained, restless, changeable.

sooo when i found out these parts were in my personality it was truly a feeling of freedom. i act the way i do and it is normal. not saying it is okay to act that way, for example to interrupt or be undisciplined - but for me it was normal. when i know the tendencies i have then it helps me guard against negative behaviours - and at the very least know why i am acting the way i do. wow - feels great. knowing the truth.... and feeling free.

something i keep finding the more time i spend with family, is that i desperately need to be around those that love me (who doesn't huh?) and accept me.

God wants me to get even that from Him, know why??? - 'cuz i keep finding myself in new places with no family or friends and each time that cuts deep. so if i get that love and acceptance from Him, the kind you have with your best girlfriend (guy friend if a guy), you can tell them everything. every dark feeling and thing you keep from others. they still like you and want to hang with you. God is that way, only He never gets to the point of throwing you away, there is nothing i can do to get Him to loose me. the more i seek His truth. who He made me to be and the intricacies of what He has done and is doing, the more i like myself. He thinks i am one of the coolest things He has ever done (and thinks that about you too...) He is amazing. so while there are good and bad things going on in me and around me, He is the constant, drawing me to His arms, even when i resist.


definitions of traits:
animated - full of life; lively use of hand, arm and face gestures
playful - full of fun and good humour
sociable - sees being with others as an opportunity to be cute and entertaining rather than as a challenge or business opportunity
convincing - can win others over to anything through the sheer charm of his/her personality
refreshing - renews and stimulates or makes others feel good
spirited - full of life and excitement
promoter - urges or compels others to go along, join or invest through the charm of his/her own personality
spontaneous - prefers all of life to be impulsive, unpremeditated activity, nor restricted by plans
optimistic - sunny disposition who convinces self and others that everything will turn out all right
funny - sparkling sense of humour that can make virtually any story into a hilarious event
delightful - is upbeat and fun to be with
cheerful - consistently in good spirits and promoting happiness in others
inspiring - encourages others to work, join or be involved and makes the whole thing fun
demonstrative - openly expresses emotion, especially affection, and doesn't hesitate to touch others while speaking to them
mixes easily - loves a party and can't wait to meet everyone in the room, never meets a stranger
talker - constantly talking, telling funny stories and entertaining everyone around, feels need to fill silence in order to make others comfortable
lively - full of life, vigorous, energetic
cute - precious, adorable, center of attention
popular - life of the party, and therefore much desired as a party goer
bouncy - a bubbly, lively personality, full of energy
brassy - showy, flashy, comes on strong, too loud
undisciplined - lack of order permeates most every area of his/her life
repetitious - retells stories and incidents to entertain without realizing he/she has already told the story several times before, constantly needs to have something to say
forgetful - lack of memory, which is usually tied to a lack of discipline, and not bothering to mentally record things that aren't fun
interrupts - is more of a talker than a listener, starts speaking without even realizing someone else is already speaking
unpredictable - may be ecstatic one moment and down the next, or willing to help but then disappears, or promises to come but forgets to show up
haphazard - has no consistent way of doing things
permissive - allows others (including children) to do as they please in order to keep from being disliked
angered easily - has a childlike flash-in-the-pan temper that expresses itself in tantrum style, which is over and forgotten almost instantly
naive - simple and child-like perspective, lacking sophistication or comprehension of what the deeper levels of life are really about
wants credit - thrives on the credit or approval of others. as an entertainer, ths person feeds on the applause, laughter and/or acceptance of an audience
talkative - an entertaining, compulsive talker who finds it difficult to listen
disorganized - lack of ability to ever get life in order
inconsistent - erratic, contradictory, with actions and emotions not based on logic
messy - lives in a state of disorder, unable to find things
show-off - needs to be the center of attention, wants to be watched
loud - has a laugh or voice that can be heard above others in the room
scatterbrained - lacks the power of concentration or attention, flighty
restless - likes constant new activity because it isn't fun to do the same things all the time
changeable - a childlike, short attention span that needs a lot of change and variety to keep from getting bored